BlogHer ’10 in NYC!
Worlds colliding.
It’s an expression we use to describe what happens when parts of our lives, once divided, come together in a dramatic way. I can’t think of a better way to describe the past week.
Those who know me well know I stay busy in my “real” day-to-day life, but that I also spend a great deal of time “online”. I would hazard a guess that many have no idea what that really means.
But I do. I know that the connections and friendships I’ve been making online the last year and a half are real, even if they have so far only existed through a bunch of computer wires. I have written before about the truth online, and I stand by what I wrote. You get what you give…in real life and online.
So. The time came to shine a real life light on my online world. A conference in NYC called BlogHer ’10 would bring together people I was working for, and with; people who had published my writing, people with whom I had talked, laughed, ranted and shared. What would it be like? (Amazing.) Would the connections hold? (Yes, they would.) Would meeting in person make a difference? (Yes, it did.) I would find out. I took a deep breath and bought a ticket, booked my flight.
It was the craziest, most amazing thing, every time I met someone that previously I had only known online. Eyes meeting, recognition dawning and that live greeting and hug, hearing a person’s voice I’d never heard anywhere except in my head as I read their writing…amazing.
The irony is that for all we do online, there is no replacement for the moment you meet in person. Yet, every person I hugged this weekend I met online. My mind is still going in circles.
I have so much more to write about the conference, New York City, the people, and of course…photos to come. Soon, soon!
Cheers!
PS: By the way, I’m not done yet. I have a need-to-hug list, and I haven’t met everyone on it yet. Some of you are still out there, you know who you are!



